And some clear signs to see if you’re being roached. — Online dating can be messy. You could put so much effort only to get disappointed over and over again. Do you know that one guy you’ve been waiting for but never comes back after the first date? …

Walking away from someone that once treated us like a queen is hard. But staying with them is more painful. — I’m skeptical of those who say “I’m so so busy with work” that they couldn’t text you back. It’s a different story when you’re married with two kids. Life can get crazy sometimes. I barely saw my dad growing up because of how busy he was (literally) at work. But…

I don’t have many female friends and I’m happy that way. — I’m 28 and I only have 2 female friends that I wholeheartedly trust. One is a friend from college and another is my ex-student. 3 of us live in different cities so I usually meet them in person once a year. With that being said, I’m mostly alone. Do I…

And why do they refuse to admit this unhealthy behavior? — If you think you know all the terms in current modern dating, wait until you get to know this one. I didn’t know “groundhogging” term exists in the dating space until my friend told me about it. …

I’m damn sure you’ll cut that friend off if you find out she’s a big liar but how is it OK when it’s your partner who does that? — I’m sick of seeing those dating Reels/Shorts that romanticize red flags. They aren’t cute. Being in a toxic relationship isn’t cute. If you could turn back the time, would you still stay even after you saw the red flags? We only realized our mistake when it was over. When it…

I wish he could be more honest so I didn’t have to waste another year trying to make it work. — Do you think about the “what ifs” more frequently now? Are you not sure where to stand anymore in your relationship? Maybe you need to do the hardest thing: admit that it’s a dead-end relationship. Breaking up is scary. But you know what’s scarier? getting stuck in a relationship you…

Even then I still made the same mistake as she did. — If you’ve been through a divorce, you’ll do anything to not let your daughter make the same mistake. That’s what my mother has been doing — all my life. She reminds me every day to be independent and look for my own money — so I’ll never have to depend…

I wasn’t prepared for this reality of what actually being in a relationship feels like — We’ll hit the 7th-year mark in our relationship in a week. Sometimes we’d talk and say to each other, “I honestly don’t know how we did it”. It’s an interracial relationship with many many cultural differences and on top of that, a long distance /sigh/ Despite all of that, I…

How my aunt ruined her marriage because of advice like this one. — I saw a man on Instagram preaching how women should be demanding. That a woman shouldn’t EVER open the door. She shouldn’t pay the bills. She shouldn’t be the one planning for dates or looking for a place to eat. No no. It’s a man’s job. And as he claimed…