And some clear signs to see if you’re being roached. — Online dating can be messy. You could put so much effort only to get disappointed over and over again. Do you know that one guy you’ve been waiting for but never comes back after the first date? Yes, he’s ghosting you, and no, it doesn’t mean you aren’t good enough…

Those who think they can be in love forever with their partner are simply delusional. — My grandma and grandpa have the healthiest, long-lasting relationship I’ve ever known. For a long time, I was jealous. Back then, I couldn’t seem to attract someone with whom I could have a healthy relationship. It’s always full of drama. So I began to seek “relationship hacks” everywhere. I realized…

Many people quit because of this reality. — Dating online is easy, all you need is to swipe right, and that’s it, right? Well, if that’s the case, then many people would’ve been in a happy relationship right now. But the fact is, it’s so hard to even find people who want to have a proper conversation. The…

These points will make you more aware if you’re in the right relationship. — Trying to keep a relationship isn’t always easy for women — some end up losing themselves in the way. From where I grew up here in Indonesia, women are taught to just sit there and receive. There’s no concept that they can choose or make a decision, especially in marriages. …

Many people don’t even realize they made this mistake. — “Why the fuck do I keep falling for the wrong guy? What’s wrong with me?” I was frustrated. For years, I hated myself for deleting dating apps this week and reinstalling them again next week. How’s the cycle gonna end? It took me forever to realize the answer to those…

Even though deep down you knew he was bad for you. — My first relationship was a true definition of toxic. We’d fight every single day. We’d call each other names. He’d flirt behind my back and I’d be a dramatic crazy bitch over it. Legit the darkest time in my life. When we broke up and he moved out of town…

You can still miss him and not text him. — It’s Friday night. All of your friends are busy with their partners. You’re tired of watching Netflix. So you’re on your phone scrolling through old pictures. Damn, do you miss your ex too? It only takes one text to bring them back into your life. One text. But before you…

“Where should we go for our family vacation?” — “How could you call someone the love of your life while you’ve only been with them for less than 3 months?” Hmm. Tina was right. Turned out he wasn’t “the one”. I hated to admit that it was nothing more than just one of those guys I got emotionally attached…

Too many mind games and BS that don’t deserve our time and energy. — I wrote an article a year ago that went viral (90k views + still counting). Almost every comment I got in there says that they’re so done with dating apps — and online dating in general. Is it the Apps that are the problem? Or is it us? Regardless of…