Hey Justin, it truly means the world to me that you took the time to write this thoughtful comment on my article. While you can't predict how the kids going to be in their adult relationships, you can always do your best to be there for them - emotionally especially. I knew I still didn't like the fact that my mom didn't leave earlier but I still respect her so much for giving her all (being a dad & mom at the same time) during our childhoods. It made a huge difference. So now whenever I'd like to believe that people will just cheat on me, I'd remind myself that healthy relationship still exists because mom showed it to me. Definitely keep me posted on how it goes with your kids' life. But I have faith they'll be just fine - knowing they have a great dad like you.