And some clear signs to see if you’re being roached. — Online dating can be messy. You could put so much effort only to get disappointed over and over again. Do you know that one guy you’ve been waiting for but never comes back after the first date? …

Those who think they can be in love forever with their partner are simply delusional. — My grandma and grandpa have the healthiest, long-lasting relationship I’ve ever known. For a long time, I was jealous. Back then, I couldn’t seem to attract someone with whom I could have a healthy relationship. It’s always full of drama. So I began to seek “relationship hacks” everywhere. I realized…

Many people quit because of this reality. — Dating online is easy, all you need is to swipe right, and that’s it, right? Well, if that’s the case, then many people would’ve been in a happy relationship right now. But the fact is, it’s so hard to even find people who want to have a proper conversation. The…

These points will make you more aware if you’re in the right relationship. — Trying to keep a relationship isn’t always easy for women — some end up losing themselves in the way. From where I grew up here in Indonesia, women are taught to just sit there and receive. There’s no concept that they can choose or make a decision, especially in marriages. …

It’s not that simple to say, “fuck it” and leave. — It’s getting harder and harder to believe healthy relationships do exist. I mean, if you look at your surroundings, you probably find more bad examples than good ones. At least that’s what I’ve been seeing — both offline and online. Just last week my mom told me our neighbor has…

You can forgive someone without giving them another chance. — Is it just me or exes do seem to always come back? Especially when you’re ready to move on. Just last week my friend came to me asking if her ex actually wants her back. “He’s been texting me nonstop for days now!” she said. Whoa. Let’s be honest —…

Does it actually work? ’Cause it seems like nothing but a privilege to me. — “Things are always working out for me. No matter how it looks at any given point in time” she said in her TikTok video. That’s just one example of the current trends of “lucky girl syndrome.” With 631.71 million views to this date, you know this trend is no joke. …

Many people don’t even realize they made this mistake. — “Why the fuck do I keep falling for the wrong guy? What’s wrong with me?” I was frustrated. For years, I hated myself for deleting dating apps this week and reinstalling them again next week. How’s the cycle gonna end? It took me forever to realize the answer to those…

Even though deep down you knew he was bad for you. — My first relationship was a true definition of toxic. We’d fight every single day. We’d call each other names. He’d flirt behind my back and I’d be a dramatic crazy bitch over it. Legit the darkest time in my life. When we broke up and he moved out of town…