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4 Types of People I No Longer Want to Be Friends with Anymore

The wishy-washy one

Anggun Bawi
4 min readMay 12, 2022
Photo by Andrea Piacquadio

Who you choose to surround yourself with will determine the amount of happiness you have in your life.

I learned the hard way that not everyone I cross paths with deserves my time and energy. Sometimes it’s okay to say “no” and stop being the people pleaser like you used to.

Below are the types of people you should never build a friendship with because if you do, it’s guaranteed you’ll have more headaches in your life.

1. The wishy-washy one

This is the one who can’t make up their mind and always bail on you. They always make it like their reasoning is the most legit one and there’s no way you could argue with that.

The other week one of the people I just met initiated a hangout, I said, “yes, let’s do it!”. On the day it was supposed to happen, I texted her but she said she had to cancel it due to family reasons.

Okay, we can always reschedule — I said.

Another timing was set for the same week and weirdly another thing “came up” so she had to cancel again. At this point, I was pissed. But late that night she reached out again she changed her plans and wanted to go tomorrow.

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Anggun Bawi
Anggun Bawi

Written by Anggun Bawi

Writing on trauma, dating and relationships | lives in Vancouver 🇨🇦

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